tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3903011297439992072024-03-19T12:58:01.539-04:00The Glam ReaperHome of The Glam Reaper Podcast/Blog looking at all aspects of life, love, loss, through the lens of funerals. The Glam Reaperhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08633431333914923438noreply@blogger.comBlogger319125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-390301129743999207.post-24892009589995482062024-03-12T20:24:00.000-04:002024-03-12T20:24:03.115-04:00 What Truly Matters at the End of Life: Insights from Those Who Embraced Living Fully<p>In a world where the fear of death often overshadows the beauty of life, it's essential to pause and reflect on what truly matters as we approach the end of our journey. Recently, an article published by The Guardian shed light on the insights of 30 individuals who began truly living once they learned they were dying. Their stories not only inspire but also provide invaluable lessons for all of us, regardless of where we are in our life's journey. Their advice? As follows.....</p><p>Embrace Authentic Connections:</p><p>One recurring theme among those facing mortality was the importance of authentic connections. Whether it was spending quality time with loved ones, reconciling with estranged family members, or strengthening bonds with friends, these individuals emphasized the significance of human connection in their final days. As 'busy' as we always are, it's easy to overlook the importance of nurturing relationships. Yet, when faced with the reality of limited time, it becomes clear that nothing matters more than the people we hold dear.</p><p>Live with Purpose:</p><p>Another revelation shared by these folks was the importance of living with purpose. Many found solace and fulfillment in pursuing their passions, whether it was through creative endeavors, volunteering, or simply being present in each moment. The realization that life is finite served as a catalyst for aligning their actions with their values, resulting in a deeper sense of meaning and fulfillment. Their stories serve as a reminder that true happiness stems from following our purpose, no matter how grand or humble it may seem.</p><p>Be Vulnerable:</p><p>Facing mortality also prompted a few of them to embrace vulnerability in their interactions with others. Instead of hiding behind masks or pretending to be someone they're not, these individuals found liberation in sharing their fears, hopes, and dreams openly. By embracing vulnerability, they cultivated deeper connections and forged genuine relationships based on trust and acceptance. In a society that often values stoicism over vulnerability, their courage serves as a powerful reminder of the beauty that lies in authenticity.</p><p>Letting Go of Regrets:</p><p>Perhaps one of the most poignant lessons shared by those nearing the end of their lives was the importance of letting go of regrets. Whether it was forgiving oneself for past mistakes or making amends with others, these individuals found peace in releasing the burden of regret. Instead of dwelling on what could have been, they focused on the present moment, cherishing each day as a gift. Their stories serve as a powerful reminder that it's never too late to make peace with our past and embrace the beauty of the present.</p><p>In the end, it's not the material possessions or achievements that define us, but rather the love we share and the lives we touch along the way.</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi316cwU98Gkevihsi4qLUVfHxOSkwG7_mA8ZpqMKoyAe25v2LWdPqDnBzVZ4QEdc4KAOMXsTj7tWbziaQVFQ6zZu1CXapXlAU4InM8bWqlGCDPUATHROGPzQUG8-J7YeB3192j8p2uICRhgm-8kc_GDlx4oetdP7AKD8k17u-XfO5vorPd37iiDiAqP98/s1080/Untitled%20design.png" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1080" data-original-width="1080" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi316cwU98Gkevihsi4qLUVfHxOSkwG7_mA8ZpqMKoyAe25v2LWdPqDnBzVZ4QEdc4KAOMXsTj7tWbziaQVFQ6zZu1CXapXlAU4InM8bWqlGCDPUATHROGPzQUG8-J7YeB3192j8p2uICRhgm-8kc_GDlx4oetdP7AKD8k17u-XfO5vorPd37iiDiAqP98/s320/Untitled%20design.png" width="320" /></a></div><br /><p><br /></p>Jennifer Muldowneyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13293362045771322979noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-390301129743999207.post-3716613921112226922024-03-01T16:31:00.002-05:002024-03-01T16:42:19.292-05:00Eyes Included: Myths and Realities of Organ Donation<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><iframe allowfullscreen="" class="BLOG_video_class" height="361" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/ZmNr1ev9qYg" width="435" youtube-src-id="ZmNr1ev9qYg"></iframe></div><p>Heather Taylor of @BeforeTheCoffin </p><p>In this episode of The Glam Reaper Podcast, our host Jennifer sits down with Heather Taylor, a mortician with a wealth of experience in the funeral business. </p><p>Heather shares her journey from Pittsburgh to Seattle and eventually settling in Michigan, recounting the pivotal moment that led her to make these life-changing moves. She also spills the tea on her experience with dating in deathcare!</p><p>Heather reflects on the versatility of a degree in the mortuary field, emphasizing the diverse interests and skills that draw individuals to the funeral industry. Jennifer adds her unique perspective on different aspects of deathcare, highlighting the importance of continuous learning and knowledge-sharing within the profession.</p><p>Tune in as they navigate the intricate world of dating, deathcare and beyond!</p><p>LINKS:</p><p>Youtube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZmNr1ev9qYg">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZmNr1ev9qYg</a> </p><p>Apple: <a href="Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZmNr1ev9qYg Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000647641639 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/4hhtqfbOcs4jmHjV4Awrk6?si=fba6f0bf15ab4bb1">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000647641639 </a> </p><p>Spotify: <a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/4hhtqfbOcs4jmHjV4Awrk6?si=fba6f0bf15ab4bb1">https://open.spotify.com/episode/4hhtqfbOcs4jmHjV4Awrk6?si=fba6f0bf15ab4bb1</a></p><p><span face="-apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" role="gridcell" style="font-size: 15px; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span></p>The Glam Reaperhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08633431333914923438noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-390301129743999207.post-42215046509323604732024-02-24T19:10:00.002-05:002024-02-24T19:10:00.143-05:00 63 creative ideas for memorial planning or funeral arrangements<p> Here are 63 creative ideas we have curated for memorial planning or funeral arrangements:</p><p></p><blockquote style="border: medium; margin: 0px 0px 0px 40px; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><ol style="text-align: left;"><li style="text-align: left;">Release balloons in their favorite color or with messages attached.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Arrange for a dove release ceremony.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Write and share personal letters or notes in a memory jar.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Set up a memory wall with notes and letters from friends and family.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Hold a candle lighting ceremony where attendees each light a candle in memory.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Create a scrapbook with memories and stories from friends and family.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Organize a memorial walk or run for a cause in their honor.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Arrange for a sand ceremony where participants pour sand (maybe from different locations?) into a vessel to symbolize unity.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Conduct a memorial service at a meaningful location, such as a park or beach.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Arrange for a fireworks display in their favorite colors or at a special location.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Create a memorial video game or board game based on their interests.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Have a themed memorial where attendees dress in the person's favorite colors or attire.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Host a cooking or baking event with their favorite recipes.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Create a time capsule filled with memories, letters, and items to be opened in the future.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Arrange for a skywriting tribute with a message in their honor.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Organize a group activity or game they enjoyed, such as a sports tournament or trivia night.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Display their artwork or creative projects in an exhibition.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Create a charitable foundation or scholarship in their name.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Commission a piece of sculpture in their memory.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Create a digital memorial website or blog where people can share memories and stories.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Hold a memorial poetry reading or storytelling event.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Create a personalized memorial bench at a favorite spot.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Host a movie night featuring their favorite films or documentaries.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Organize a book drive or library donation in their honor.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Arrange for a hot air balloon ride in their memory.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Create a memorial puzzle with a favorite photo or image.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Organize a picnic or outdoor gathering in their favorite park.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Host a themed dinner party with their favorite foods and drinks.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Set up a memorial art installation or sculpture in a public space.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Hold a remembrance ceremony at sunrise or sunset.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Hold an ash scattering ceremony in their favorite park/beach.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Organize a talent show or open mic night showcasing the deceased talents and interests.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Arrange for a sky lantern release at dusk.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Host a beach or lakefront memorial with a floating candle ceremony.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Create a personalized memory bracelet or jewelry for attendees.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Organize a community service project or volunteer day in their memory.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Host a charity auction or fundraiser to support causes they cared about.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Arrange for a star-naming ceremony in their honor.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Hold a meditation or mindfulness session in their memory.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Organize a memorial bike ride or hike at a scenic location.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Arrange for a mural painting or street art project dedicated to their memory.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Host a scavenger hunt featuring locations or items related to their life.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Create a podcast series featuring stories and memories shared by friends and family.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Arrange for a musical tribute concert with performers playing their favorite songs</li><li style="text-align: left;">Arrange for a butterfly release ceremony.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Create a memorial recipe book featuring their favorite dishes and family recipes.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Organize a community cleanup or beautification project in their honor.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Host a grief writing workshop.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Arrange for a memorial fishing trip or boat ride.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Host a sports tournament in their honor with their favorite games or activities.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Arrange for a star-gazing event or visit to an observatory.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Hold a storytelling circle where people share their favorite memories.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Organize a themed photo booth with props related to their interests.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Arrange for a special performance by a choir or musical group.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Host a craft-making event where attendees create items in memory of the person.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Host a memorial bonfire where attendees share stories and memories.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Create a custom-designed memorial flag or banner.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Host a poetry slam event with poems inspired by their life.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Host a film screening of movies that held special meaning to them.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Arrange for a personalized bench swing at a favorite spot.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Host a nature walk or wildlife tour in their memory.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Host a karaoke night featuring their favorite songs and music.</li><li style="text-align: left;">Arrange for a custom-made memorial sculpture or statue. </li></ol></blockquote>These ideas can be adapted and combined to create a meaningful and personalized memorial or funeral service to honor the life and legacy of your loved one. You can do some if not most of them yourself or you can hire any of <a href="http://www.muldowneymemorials.com" target="_blank">our incredible vendors (or us</a>) to help you implement them so you can work on yourself, your family and your grief. Sending warmth to you in this journey. The Glam Reaperhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08633431333914923438noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-390301129743999207.post-31284003901409053992024-02-19T12:37:00.003-05:002024-02-19T12:37:53.197-05:00Mindful Transcendence: Embracing Life's Realities Through Meditation of Death<div>Embarking on a journey of meditation often leads us to profound realizations about life and our existence. </div><div><br /></div><div><div>A Tibetan Buddhist tradition contains an effective meditation called the nine-point meditation on death. It is presented with three root truths, three reasons for each truth, and three conclusions that follow from them:</div><div><br /></div><div>Root: Death is certain.</div><div>1. No being has ever escaped death].</div><div>2. I am constantly becoming closer to death.</div><div>3. There is not much time to practice Dharma*</div><div>Conclusion: I must practice Dharma</div><div><br /></div><div>Root: The time of death is uncertain.</div><div>4. The lifespan of the human being is not fixed.</div><div>5. More conditions endanger life than support it.</div><div>6. This body is extremely fragile.</div><div>Conclusion: I must practice Dharma now.</div><div><br /></div><div>Root: Nothing can help at the time of death except my Dharma practice.</div><div>7. Wealth can't help.</div><div>8. Friends and relatives can't help.</div><div>9. Your body can't help.</div><div>Conclusion: I must practice Dharma purely.</div></div><div><br /></div><div><div>In the realm of mindfulness and self-discovery, this framework guides practitioners through a profound contemplation on life, death, and the essence of being. </div></div><div><br /></div><div>Each of these nine points offers a pathway to introspection, inviting individuals to explore the inevitability of death, the uncertainty of its timing, and the transformative power of spiritual practice. </div><div><br /></div><div>Understanding the Structure</div><div>There are different approaches to meditating on the nine points, each offering its own insights and depth of understanding. One method involves meditating on all nine points in a single session. Alternatively, one might choose to dedicate one session to each point detailed above. Another option is to focus on the 3 points in 3 separate sessions: acknowledging the inevitability of death, recognizing the uncertainty of its timing, and understanding the role of spiritual practice in facing it.</div><div><br /></div><div>Preparing for Meditation</div><div>Before delving into the meditation itself, it's crucial to create a conducive environment. Find a comfortable position, straighten your back, and allow your body to relax. Take a few moments to ground yourself in the present, shedding thoughts of the past and future. Settle your mind on the chosen topic for the meditation session.</div><div><br /></div><div>Cultivating Motivation</div><div>As your mind settles into the present moment, cultivate a positive motivation for your meditation practice. Reflect on the aspiration for greater peace and happiness for all beings. Consider how your meditation can contribute to your own enlightenment and the well-being of others.</div><div><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><b><u>Exploring the Nine Points</u></b></div><div><br /></div><div>The Inevitability of Death</div><div><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Contemplate the certainty of death, a reality often overlooked amidst life's distractions. </li><li>Reflect on the lives of those who have passed before us, recognizing that death is an inevitable part of the human experience.</li><li>Consider the fleeting nature of life and the urgency to engage in spiritual practice.</li></ul></div><div><br /></div><div>The Uncertainty of the Time of Death</div><div><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Acknowledge the unpredictable nature of death's timing. </li><li>Life's brevity reminds us of its preciousness. </li><li>Reflect on the myriad causes of death and the fragility of the human body. </li><li>Embrace the uncertainty as a catalyst for living with intention and purpose.</li></ul></div><div><br /></div><div>The Role of Spiritual Practice</div><div><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Recognize that worldly possessions and relationships cannot accompany us beyond death. </li><li>Only our mind, enriched with positive imprints, transcends the boundaries of mortality. </li><li>Cultivate virtues such as compassion, patience, and wisdom, laying the foundation for a peaceful transition.</li></ul></div><div><br /></div><div>Reflection and Dedication</div><div><br /></div><div>As the meditation draws to a close, reflect on the insights gained and the potential for personal growth. Dedicate the merit of your practice to the well-being of all sentient beings, fostering a sense of interconnectedness and compassion.</div><div><br /></div><div>In conclusion, the meditation on the nine points offers an opportunity for introspection. By embracing the inevitability of death, acknowledging its uncertainty, and cultivating spiritual practice, we can navigate life's journey with wisdom and compassion, ultimately finding peace in the face of mortality.</div>
<br /><div><br /></div><div><div><i>*Dharma is a concept with deep roots in Eastern philosophy, particularly in Hinduism, Buddhism, Jainism, and Sikhism. While its interpretation varies among these traditions, at its core, dharma embodies the principles of duty, righteousness, and cosmic order.</i></div><div><i><br /></i></div><div><i>Overall, dharma transcends religious boundaries and serves as a guiding principle for righteous living, moral conduct, and spiritual fulfillment across diverse cultural and philosophical contexts. It embodies the harmony between individual duties, societal responsibilities, and cosmic order, aiming to foster a sense of unity, balance, and interconnectedness in the world.</i></div></div>The Glam Reaperhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08633431333914923438noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-390301129743999207.post-34589625895687761012024-02-14T16:31:00.001-05:002024-03-01T16:34:28.031-05:00Candles in the Dark: Shedding Light on Mental Health in the Funeral Community<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><iframe allowfullscreen="" class="BLOG_video_class" height="360" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/ubSCyl3H-sQ" width="432" youtube-src-id="ubSCyl3H-sQ"></iframe></div><p></p><p>In this episode, Jennifer sits down with Kim Zavrotny of Funeral Peer Support to explore the world of global (peer) support for funeral professionals. The conversation kicks off with Jennifer expressing her admiration for their podcast "Stronger Together" and delving into her personal journey of discovering and connecting with the tight-knit funeral peer support community.</p><p>The discussion takes an insightful turn as Jennifer opens up about facing resistance to unconventional attitudes within the funeral profession.</p><p>Kim, the driving force behind the peer support group, shares the origin story of this vital community. As they delve into the volunteer nature of the organization, Kim sheds light on the heartfelt commitment that fuels this network. </p><p>Tune in to gain valuable insights into the impactful work of this volunteer-driven global community!</p><p>YouTube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ubSCyl3H-sQ&t=716s">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ubSCyl3H-sQ&t=716s</a></p><p>Apple: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000645419792">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000645419792</a></p><p>Spotify: <a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/2tPJMgDuix68nLSMa8QLHj?si=a7609caf54e842c5">https://open.spotify.com/episode/2tPJMgDuix68nLSMa8QLHj?si=a7609caf54e842c5</a></p><p><br /></p>The Glam Reaperhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08633431333914923438noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-390301129743999207.post-57981464215311442892024-01-31T16:35:00.013-05:002024-03-01T16:38:08.195-05:00Aqua Transformation: The Metamorphosis of Bones in Water Cremation<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><iframe allowfullscreen="" class="BLOG_video_class" height="354" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/9EvwQlN51lE" width="426" youtube-src-id="9EvwQlN51lE"></iframe></div><p></p><p>In this episode of The Glam Reaper Podcast, our host Jennifer sits down with Emily Nelson, Founder & CEO at Be a Tree Cremation, to delve into a unique and eco-friendly approach to end-of-life disposition – also known as water cremation, resomation or alkaline hydrolysis.</p><p>Take a listen as Jennifer and Emily explore the emotional and sometimes perplexing choices people make when it comes to end-of-life disposition. From the initial care of the deceased to the actual water cremation procedure, Emily provides insights into the thoughtful process they follow at their facility.</p><p>In addition, Jennifer and Emily discuss the legal aspects and regulations surrounding water cremation, acknowledging the challenges and variations in state regulations across the United States.</p><p>Tune into this insightful conversation as they navigate the waters of water cremation and its impact on the funeral industry!</p><p>LINKS:</p><p>YOUTUBE: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9EvwQlN51lE&t=105s">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9EvwQlN51lE&t=105s</a></p><p>APPLE: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000643631917">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000643631917</a></p><p>SPOTIFY: <a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/6DDPoiGY9I0JuKDGZLqnZR?si=6f62d74230894643">https://open.spotify.com/episode/6DDPoiGY9I0JuKDGZLqnZR?si=6f62d74230894643</a></p><p><br /></p>The Glam Reaperhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08633431333914923438noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-390301129743999207.post-67820763185748338612024-01-24T14:46:00.002-05:002024-01-24T14:46:11.773-05:00 Outsider’s perspective of the funeral industry<p>Hi everyone 👋! I'm Anna, a guest writer on Jennifer’s blog 💫! I’m here to provide an outsider’s perspective on the funeral industry. My professional journey has been in finance & strategy at tech startups (very different, I know!); but, after I lost my mom in 2016, I’ve become fascinated with the deathcare space and passionate about making the end-of-life process easier for families. Now in 2024, I find myself in the process of discovering my path within the industry and also serendipitously crossing paths with Jennifer! </p><p>Last week, Jennifer & I hit up the Trend ReCON conference hosted by Tribute Tech. Tribute is a leading tech company in the funeral space that builds websites, case management software, and other tools for funeral homes. This was Tribute’s second year hosting Trend ReCON, a small conference where they invited speakers and hosted fireside chats to review & present new technology. Lecture topics ranged from reminding funeral directors of the importance of digital marketing to providing a crash course on how to use ChatGPT. </p><p>As an outsider, I found the conference really helpful in understanding a unique & niche industry a little bit better. Here are some of my key takeaways:</p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Confirmed, the funeral industry appears to be very technologically behind.</li><li>Many funeral homes still don’t have a website and rely on word-of-mouth and community referrals. To put it into perspective, Google and SEO activity exploded ~20 years ago. </li><li>For the funeral homes that are tech savvy, they will at the very least have a website, maybe Quickbooks, and maybe case management software. </li><li>The pandemic forced funeral homes to become more tech savvy. </li><li>It was a necessary change that is here to stay. </li><li>The pandemic pressured funeral homes to create websites and offer virtual live streaming. Even now post-pandemic, virtual attendance is increasing while physical attendance & visitations are decreasing.</li><li>Although the landing page is important for funeral homes to advertise their business, the obituary page is their goldmine.</li><li>On average, an obituary receives 200 views. 60% are 45+ years old, 60% are female, and the majority are within 15 miles. This means that obituary viewers should be funeral homes’ target leads for at-need and pre-need.</li><li>The funeral industry is very short-staffed. This is an acute & persistent problem across the industry.</li><li>The funeral industry has shifted from an employer’s market to an employee’s market. The space is paying employees more than ever, but there is just not enough supply to meet demand. </li><li>What’s interesting though is that in 2021, overall enrollment in mortuary school jumped by 24% indicating an increasing interest in the space.</li><li>Succession planning will be a problem. I predict more consolidation over the next few years.</li><li>60% of funeral directors will retire in the next 5 years. Most will have issues finding a successor and will probably get acquired.</li><li>The fragmented industry has just started getting consolidated in the last few years (20% of funeral homes are owned by consolidators). Right now, consolidators are focused on scaling their portfolio, but more consolidation will come in the next few years. </li></ul><p></p><p>I hope you found this post interesting. Leave a comment if you have any thoughts, questions, or input into what you think the future of tech is for the funeral industry!</p><p><br /></p><p>~ Anna</p><p><br /></p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEiPLuRQIZZ_-FvTJlQl8G4jOnRjBkUSFI7S9i7KuiYWL4h_4HNOJ4EmDrOLsauwP5A-2zvNHNONuKNACleCSpwPdqbFWXpxS1W4cTp3KG105ruBCeRAy0UQ6C_41KbbxZ9fQ0nfJlH__7ERlNe4DMRMlXUTs9ORyiHd69a_IdjlJgTP9zIpLsgqNurHo0Vg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="" data-original-height="3024" data-original-width="4032" height="300" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEiPLuRQIZZ_-FvTJlQl8G4jOnRjBkUSFI7S9i7KuiYWL4h_4HNOJ4EmDrOLsauwP5A-2zvNHNONuKNACleCSpwPdqbFWXpxS1W4cTp3KG105ruBCeRAy0UQ6C_41KbbxZ9fQ0nfJlH__7ERlNe4DMRMlXUTs9ORyiHd69a_IdjlJgTP9zIpLsgqNurHo0Vg=w400-h300" width="400" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEjk5zCUiaOcxcyK4m0fjjMewwnAiIoeeu0T2Ih5d5netUbNXo3OZZSrpYw-zZiDhSSNCAyLTCMMBd_0IsnzYweKWSQxZpCIlI7aBtkctq1_hBd2IjMD5iws-0HiZ7tWtO9HCKM9udVpffnxJ8IPeet5TCa7iUlr1udEE7wlMxGPB1pCcpAvZMm2rmSAkHIb" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="" data-original-height="4032" data-original-width="3024" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEjk5zCUiaOcxcyK4m0fjjMewwnAiIoeeu0T2Ih5d5netUbNXo3OZZSrpYw-zZiDhSSNCAyLTCMMBd_0IsnzYweKWSQxZpCIlI7aBtkctq1_hBd2IjMD5iws-0HiZ7tWtO9HCKM9udVpffnxJ8IPeet5TCa7iUlr1udEE7wlMxGPB1pCcpAvZMm2rmSAkHIb" width="180" /></a><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEhZ4aMqUmX7dFzs9vJ-jIdwxr-V-nCRRuul8e278MTIjIE4jMLQ56LpKY2CupTWRSvTzlBHBnxQXnaekZHFO7aeKu6GQ6BNVD9n6Yi6zbEJfciT4P-rioz07sssdMKlNw3HL1_xJAQSGgm6lo9F5Vt4oze3d9ZTidEOCRWMjr8ibOG5WJEZj0tZip8J0y1E" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="" data-original-height="4032" data-original-width="3024" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEhZ4aMqUmX7dFzs9vJ-jIdwxr-V-nCRRuul8e278MTIjIE4jMLQ56LpKY2CupTWRSvTzlBHBnxQXnaekZHFO7aeKu6GQ6BNVD9n6Yi6zbEJfciT4P-rioz07sssdMKlNw3HL1_xJAQSGgm6lo9F5Vt4oze3d9ZTidEOCRWMjr8ibOG5WJEZj0tZip8J0y1E" width="180" /></a></div></div><br /><br /><br /><p></p>The Glam Reaperhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08633431333914923438noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-390301129743999207.post-60994305183523785102024-01-20T22:45:00.004-05:002024-01-22T10:19:02.028-05:00A Cinematic Odyssey: Saltburn's Grief Scene and a Wuthering Heights connection<p>If you haven't seen it then STOP, go and watch it! </p><p>Diving into the heart-wrenching yet beautifully crafted world of Saltburn, with a special focus on the soul-stirring grief scene that unfolds at the graveside. </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiZOTR_1u1O6W-T3eSFVsRSioWOLJkxFCw8ce266zg6yipec5wE24QF38yvTyrC-TbPgNQxRhKnfny5c4khyphenhyphenrOrLrBRFKoZjkQ_N9yp5Q-UUbexEbi5AKuvx6VuddJz-uTqvQfUdDXKDYvr50li_PfJ78-YeWkA9yyv2jzatn2XgLpZKHrCkPyvg-ohAnUK/s1200/Saltburn.jpeg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="675" data-original-width="1200" height="180" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiZOTR_1u1O6W-T3eSFVsRSioWOLJkxFCw8ce266zg6yipec5wE24QF38yvTyrC-TbPgNQxRhKnfny5c4khyphenhyphenrOrLrBRFKoZjkQ_N9yp5Q-UUbexEbi5AKuvx6VuddJz-uTqvQfUdDXKDYvr50li_PfJ78-YeWkA9yyv2jzatn2XgLpZKHrCkPyvg-ohAnUK/s320/Saltburn.jpeg" width="320" /></a></div><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lALMdJf6UUE" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Saltburn</a>, a cinematic masterpiece, takes us on an incredibly boundary pushing and profound journey through life, love, and, inevitably, loss. </p><p>As the characters gather around the graveside, the scene is bathed in a soft, melancholic light, and the weight of loss hangs heavily in the air. The filmmakers' attention to detail is palpable, capturing the essence of grief in its rawest form. But once the family leave Oliver, it becomes no typical movie grief scene – it's a moment that challenges the boundaries of expression.</p><p><a href="https://www.imdb.com/name/nm4422686/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Barry Keoghan'</a>s portrayal of Oliver in this scene is nothing short of masterful. In the aftermath of Felix's funeral, Oliver grapples with the heaviness of the situation. The weight of loss becomes overwhelming, and in a moment of profound vulnerability, Oliver removes his shirt and collapses onto the freshly filled grave unbuttoning his trousers to relieve himself of the pent-up sexual tension he's been holding on to.</p><p>The scene takes an unexpected turn as Oliver, consumed by grief and obsession, engages in an unsettling ritual to bid farewell to his beloved Felix. Instead of conventional tributes, Oliver fully undresses and lies face down on the freshly-laid gravesoil. This disturbing yet intriguing act serves as an unconventional expression of love, loss, and extreme hopelessness. But is it so 'out there'? I don't think so. I think people who have seen grief and lived in it know how dark, how bizarre, how weird your thoughts and actions can get (or feel). To see this on screen, in a popular medium with great actors was incredible. <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iNiCNz-7Sqg" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Grief is UNIQUE.</a></p><p>In an interview with <a href="https://ew.com/movies/movie-reviews/saltburn-review-emerald-fennell-barry-keoghan-jacob-elordi-rosamund-pike/" target="_blank">Entertainment Weekly</a>, <a href="https://www.imdb.com/name/nm4422686/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Barry Keoghan</a> sheds light on the scene's evolution. Originally meant to stop at touching the dirt, Keoghan and writer/director Emerald Fennell decided to push the boundaries further. Keoghan explains, "It wasn’t about f@%king the grave, it was more about I don’t know what to do with this obsession; it’s making me confused and making me unhuman in a way. It was a total discovery for him, I think. And it was sad. It was very, very sad."</p><p><a href="https://www.imdb.com/name/nm2193504/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Emerald Fennell</a> describes “It is troubling, it’s about grief, it is about the horror of grief and the horror of love. It comes directly from the Gothic tradition because there’s a scene in Wuthering Heights, one of my favourite books of all time, where Heathcliff digs down to get to Cathy’s coffin and the subtext is very much to do a similar thing. So what we have in the film is not completely outlandish given the genre. So much of Oliver’s desire cannot be sated, what he really wants is not possible, and even in the end it’s not possible.”</p><p>While <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Saltburn_(film)" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Saltburn's</a> grief scene transcends traditional movie boundaries, it invites audiences to explore the multifaceted nature of human emotions which is something we have previously kept closeted away when it comes to grief. Another movie that came to our screens in a similar timing was <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bR_MPXTaEZw" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Good Grief</a> and for me that did less for grieving in the modern day than Saltburn who showed is grief in its raw form - the only form there is.</p><p>BUT I will say, any movie or popular medium that deals with grief, loss, death, funerals and bereavement is a winner in. my book because it is being TALKED about and that is all we can ask for. <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iNiCNz-7Sqg" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Grief is unique for us all.</a></p><p><br /></p><p>As a side note, has anyone read <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Joy-Funerals-Novel-Stories/dp/031230918X" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Alix Strauss Joy of Funerals</a>? More on this to come. Rereading it again but it gave me Saltburn grief vibes!</p>The Glam Reaperhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08633431333914923438noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-390301129743999207.post-11330804992659533852024-01-15T16:38:00.001-05:002024-03-01T16:41:16.364-05:00SEASON 4! Breaking the Silence: Insights into Preventing Self-Harm<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><iframe allowfullscreen="" class="BLOG_video_class" height="386" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/5Akpvvyu4Qg" width="465" youtube-src-id="5Akpvvyu4Qg"></iframe></div><p></p><p>In this first episode for Season 4 of The Glam Reaper podcast, Jennifer sits down with Dr. Sara Murphy—a death educator, certified thanatologist, bereavement consultant, and suicide expert and disenfranchised grief with an unconventional journey into the field. </p><p>During the discussion, Jennifer and Dr. Murphy touch on their convention sessions, including the groundbreaking launch of safe zone training and a candid exploration of suicide risk in the death care professions.</p><p>The conversation takes an emotional turn as Jennifer delves into the challenges of addressing societal issues in the field of death care. </p><p>Tune in to this episode for a human perspective on the intersection of psychology, death care, and the intricate threads that bind them together.</p><p>LINKS:</p><p>YOUTUBE: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5Akpvvyu4Qg&t=298s">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5Akpvvyu4Qg&t=298s</a></p><p>APPLE: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000641678664">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000641678664</a></p><p>SPOTIFY:<a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/3LscRT1rwcUw6RyhGhKnrQ?si=6b248034c1954c15"> https://open.spotify.com/episode/3LscRT1rwcUw6RyhGhKnrQ?si=6b248034c1954c15</a></p><p><br /></p>The Glam Reaperhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08633431333914923438noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-390301129743999207.post-72066394091427247422024-01-12T12:30:00.001-05:002024-01-12T12:30:00.150-05:00Embracing Life's Journey: A Positive Perspective on Death<p>As someone deeply involved in the world of memorial planning (and therefore death), I want to share thoughts on how we can approach death with a positive mindset, drawing from my experiences and the unique pillars of my company <a href="http://www.muldowneymemorials.com" target="_blank">Muldowney Memorials.</a></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgect83y3RfjcqktguPyxqZxNqWT6k3rP1jHcw5K9Ocx5w9SLm3NZHH13160AS2VGGr_jMzCNt7lTzwFe8M6GrEutXwTRV7FWlBJjqkYDCLXpWXtbYt9jGBlaDfMZWM7sLf8uUzoV3vKbNOmjUOYSITS1ehvgj8B8_P8Jit_jA6cbW5mVxVwfNIJAr9K6EV/s1280/Untitled%20design.png" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="720" data-original-width="1280" height="225" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgect83y3RfjcqktguPyxqZxNqWT6k3rP1jHcw5K9Ocx5w9SLm3NZHH13160AS2VGGr_jMzCNt7lTzwFe8M6GrEutXwTRV7FWlBJjqkYDCLXpWXtbYt9jGBlaDfMZWM7sLf8uUzoV3vKbNOmjUOYSITS1ehvgj8B8_P8Jit_jA6cbW5mVxVwfNIJAr9K6EV/w400-h225/Untitled%20design.png" width="400" /></a></div><br /><p>The Rollercoaster of Farewell</p><p>Death – it's something we all face in one way or another, shaping our lives in profound ways. In my journey within the funeral industry, I've witnessed a spectrum of attitudes towards death. Some see it as a chance for transformation, while others navigate it with coping mechanisms. Dying, at its core, is transformative and profound. To make it a positive transition, acceptance of death before it comes becomes crucial.</p><p><br /></p><p>Dealing with the Dreads</p><p>Coping with the anxiety surrounding death involves recognizing the different stages of grief, as proposed by Elizabeth Kubler-Ross and further developed by many more incredible authors, researchers and grief experiencers. Additionally, there are various approaches to death acceptance – from staying neutral to taking it head-on or seeking an escape. It's like a rollercoaster ride, with ups and downs, twists and turns.</p><p><br /></p><p>Finding Peace in Acceptance</p><p>Acceptance is the key, my friends. It's about letting go of attachments and finding that spiritual connection. Whether it's reflecting on life, embracing your true self, or diving into your spiritual beliefs – there are different paths to acceptance. It's like the Buddhist perspective that says to solve the problem of death; we must live a fulfilling life.</p><div><br /></div><p>Unpacking the Fears of Death Anxiety</p><p>Let's be real; death can be a scary thought. The fear of the unknown, the finality of it all, and the worries about pain and loneliness can weigh heavily on our minds. Our society tends to shy away from facing mortality, opting instead to prolong life through various means. But what if we flipped the script and embraced the inevitable?</p><p><br /></p><p>Adding Some Positive Spice</p><p>Let's sprinkle in some positive psychology with the meaning management model. We all crave meaning, especially when faced with the tough stuff like death. Engaging in meaning management deepens our faith and spirituality, creating a robust framework that shields us from the fear of death. It's not just reframing; it's a total reconstruction of our values and beliefs.</p><p><br /></p><p>Embracing Life and Death</p><p>In the memorial planning world, embracing a life of meaning echoes in our dying moments. It's about leaving behind a legacy that truly means something. By living a life of significance, we set the stage for a departure that's not just an end but a celebration of what we've created. Faith, hope, and courage – they pave the way for a life well-lived and a death embraced.</p><p><br /></p><p>A Paradox Worth Exploring</p><p>Our attitudes toward death don't just shape our individual lives; they influence the future of our society. Whether we choose to face death with fear or hope significantly impacts how we live. So, let's ponder the essence of life and death – what truly matters is living a life of meaning. Embracing death with faith gives us courage and an enduring sense of hope. </p><p>In accepting and understanding death's significance, we gain wisdom, courage, and an unyielding hope. After all, life is a paradox – seizing each day like it's our last while striving to do good for a hundred years. 🌟</p><p>~Jennifer</p>The Glam Reaperhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08633431333914923438noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-390301129743999207.post-87217450100456771542024-01-05T19:10:00.001-05:002024-01-05T19:12:01.283-05:00 The Surge in Demand for Celebrants in Funeral Services<p>Celebrants are becoming an increasingly sought-after presence in funeral services. But what's driving this noticeable rise in demand?</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgkTUFwykp2q2C8mqoT4lHlk8wqzAMaYS5YfLihfPHCYjmOqhgPRLpmG_1SLcMYhpb6TlVEs8708A3wu53WRjTUS_CY4I3wqGtqQrnAzix74n1fIEkvCOGDqwoAVTCx5WrORrhV0t1c8rll7zx4hsyjwEg2If7oU8xK9G4pRhd9kADn_kr1gBV2aDChBJnz/s5925/Jennifer.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="3942" data-original-width="5925" height="213" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgkTUFwykp2q2C8mqoT4lHlk8wqzAMaYS5YfLihfPHCYjmOqhgPRLpmG_1SLcMYhpb6TlVEs8708A3wu53WRjTUS_CY4I3wqGtqQrnAzix74n1fIEkvCOGDqwoAVTCx5WrORrhV0t1c8rll7zx4hsyjwEg2If7oU8xK9G4pRhd9kADn_kr1gBV2aDChBJnz/s320/Jennifer.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><p>Primarily, the surge is in the category of families who lack church affiliation and seek a non-religious funeral experience also known as 'none'. The nones account for a large portion of Americans, 30% of U.S. adults who claim no religious affiliation in a survey by The Associated Press-NORC Center for Public Affairs Research.</p><p>Additionally, the burgeoning popularity of cremation has reshaped expectations. Families are no longer satisfied with traditional services. Opting for cremation grants them liberty to design a personalized tribute using (or not) the remains in an urn. Funeral professionals often hear that for cremation families, their presence is deemed optional. Funeral homes offering <a href="https://www.muldowneymemorials.com/the-celebrant" target="_blank">Celebrants</a> witness a retention of these families within their fold. Celebrants cater precisely to a families unique needs while maintaining a connection to the funeral home. </p><p>Moreover, an increasing number of funeral homes, particularly larger corporations, have embraced Celebrants as a standard service option for all families, integrating it into their General Price List (GPL). This integration has resulted in a noticeable uptick in revenue and heightened client satisfaction. </p><p>Testimonial from a real life celebrant consumer</p><p><a href="https://www.yelp.com/biz/muldowney-memorials-sunnyside-2" style="background-color: white;" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: inherit;">"<span face="Open Sans, Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="color: #2d2e2f;"><span style="caret-color: rgb(45, 46, 47); font-size: 14px;">I can not tell you what a Godsend Muldowney Memorials was to my family when my cousin unexpectedly passed away. I was from the West Coast, and knew nothing about how to do a funeral that was zoomed from the funeral home in New York to 3 different time zones to people from all over the country. Jennifer, Mikey and Siobhan were just incredible. They were so kind and professional. The service turned out beautifully, the sound and visual presentation were spot on (thanks, Mikey) and Siobahn did a beautiful eulogy. I felt like they really honored my cousin. I am truly touched at what wonderful human beings they all were. Best money I ever spent, but more importantly, they took a huge burden off my shoulders in a kind, honest, and professional way. Muldowney Memorials has my highest recommendations."</span></span></span></a></p><p>Positive experiences shared among business owners have further fueled the acceptance and interest in incorporating <a href="https://www.muldowneymemorials.com/the-celebrant" target="_blank">Celebrants</a> into their firms. Beyond simply officiating funerals, <a href="https://www.muldowneymemorials.com/the-celebrant" target="_blank">Muldowney Memorial Celebrants</a> offer families additional services like:</p><p>Collaborative Creation: Celebrants view their role as a collaborative and creative process shared with the family. Each word spoken is 100% approved by the family <u>before</u> the service and each script is meticulously crafted by the celebrant based on the family's shared experiences. </p><p>Family Meetings: These gatherings are pivotal and healing. Spanning one to three hours, they serve as an opportunity to collect stories, allowing for the design of a personalized service for the departed. Beyond that, these meetings provide families with a platform to collectively share stories, commence the grieving process, and cultivate safe spaces for cherished memories.</p><p>Access to Expertise: Not only are Muldowney Memorial Celebrants trained and experienced celebrants who love their job but they also have access (thanks to the MM Events Team) to a wide range of expertise including AudioVisual Support, Catering, a wide variety of Venues, Florists, Funeral Directors and more.</p><p>The role of a <a href="https://www.muldowneymemorials.com/the-celebrant" target="_blank">Muldowney Memorial Celebrant</a> involves providing a personalized funeral service, memorial service, or tribute tailored to reflect the personality and lifestyle of the departed. This is achieved through consultations with the family and coordination with the funeral home.</p><p><u><b>A Problem: </b></u>Serving as both a funeral director and a Celebrant for the same family presents an immense challenge. Both roles demand substantial time and attention to distinct responsibilities. Celebrants, on average, invest 8-10 hours in preparing a service, encompassing meetings with the family, crafting the service, and conducting the service itself. Simultaneously, funeral directors juggle numerous tasks related to the service while managing calls and tending to other families in need. Given these demands, it is nearly always better for everyone involved if the work of a Celebrant is outsourced.</p><p>In conclusion, Celebrants are devoted to the fundamental principle of crafting a tribute that resonates with the unique lifestyle and convictions of the individual, ensuring that the service is a meaningful reflection of their life and values.</p><div><br /></div>The Glam Reaperhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08633431333914923438noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-390301129743999207.post-39236408786829472492023-12-12T14:03:00.004-05:002023-12-13T18:22:32.384-05:00Shane MacGowan's Funeral - A Fairytale of New York<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjknXQYmpM-igoL87iybM0msLY8J9s6JnODIzlg4Q-tO3YZqwpCtK1WVRtv8ON5gJ9soGZthvcyPB0833xtRttG32G8gi4_nZ8zFK8Nz29N2kbcfa7U4HVFp6Hsv1vglDHcViRujdGdk8wGBkGAtSmTwsdx0D54lODyg2bCdvVGLvHtAInCI5z_LWPGzjdi/s2048/IMG_0642.JPG" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1536" data-original-width="2048" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjknXQYmpM-igoL87iybM0msLY8J9s6JnODIzlg4Q-tO3YZqwpCtK1WVRtv8ON5gJ9soGZthvcyPB0833xtRttG32G8gi4_nZ8zFK8Nz29N2kbcfa7U4HVFp6Hsv1vglDHcViRujdGdk8wGBkGAtSmTwsdx0D54lODyg2bCdvVGLvHtAInCI5z_LWPGzjdi/s320/IMG_0642.JPG" width="320" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><p>"Fairytale of New York" is a song written by and recorded by London-based band the <a href="http://www.pogues.com" target="_blank">Pogues</a>, featuring singer-songwriter <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kirsty_MacColl" target="_blank">Kirsty MacColl </a>on vocals. </p><p>If you don’t know the song, it is an Irish folk-style ballad and was written as a duet, with the Pogues' singer Shane MacGowan taking the role of the male character and Kirsty MacColl playing the female character. </p><p>It was originally released as a single on 23 November 1987 and later featured on the Pogues' 1988 album 'If I Should Fall from Grace with God'. It is frequently cited as the best Christmas song of all time in various television, radio, and magazine-related polls.</p><p>A reading from the songbook of Shane MacGowan:</p><p style="text-align: center;"><i>It was Christmas Eve, babe, in the drunk tank</i></p><p style="text-align: center;"><i>An old man said to me, “Won’t see another one”</i></p><p style="text-align: center;"><i>And then he sang a song: “The Rare Old Mountain Dew”</i></p><p style="text-align: center;"><i>I turned my face away and dreamed about you</i></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEghNXSe8hn7mt7ZmQZZG6MYukeVFTpy_gHbCj-tHrAUbBJwavB_nm2AZhgsnYrVsVB7e0A2FYBt3rDmMThpj3jnr4s65wDJy2nrt4F-i0ygLRiRNuxquqpWqDHkfTNZga0fc-N0jwg-YU5Urj3KCkV51KMOa1AHbwBUngOqAaru3uAlfVQDWmOooHFWlSzW/s960/IMG_0641.JPG" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="540" data-original-width="960" height="180" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEghNXSe8hn7mt7ZmQZZG6MYukeVFTpy_gHbCj-tHrAUbBJwavB_nm2AZhgsnYrVsVB7e0A2FYBt3rDmMThpj3jnr4s65wDJy2nrt4F-i0ygLRiRNuxquqpWqDHkfTNZga0fc-N0jwg-YU5Urj3KCkV51KMOa1AHbwBUngOqAaru3uAlfVQDWmOooHFWlSzW/s320/IMG_0641.JPG" width="320" /></a></div><p>Sadly this year we lost Shane MacGowan, an incredible and poignant soulful Irish singer. MacGowan would have turned 66 on Christmas Day. Both singers of the song Kirsty and Shane have now passed. </p><p>Much like the haunting melodies and poignant lyrics of "Fairytale of New York," grief can evoke a myriad of emotions—sadness, nostalgia, anger, and even a touch of bittersweet humor.</p><p>The song's melodic verses capture the essence of this emotional journey—a tale of shattered dreams, dashed hopes, and the yearning for something more. Just as the characters in the song grapple with their past and present, we too navigate the intricate pathways of grief. We remember moments of joy and love, only to be reminded of their absence. It's in these moments of raw vulnerability that we learn the true strength of the human spirit. The song's poignant narrative resonates, depicting the struggle to find solace and hope in the midst of despair. Yet, within the depths of sorrow, there's a profound beauty—a beauty that arises from the memories shared and the love that transcends time. </p><p>Shane's funeral took place in his home place of Nenagh, Co Tipperary with Father Pat Gilbert, the local priest overseeing the service and it was filled with incredible readings, prayers and music that filled the church of <a href="https://www.killaloediocese.ie/church/nenagh/st-mary-of-the-rosary/" target="_blank">St. Mary of the Rosary</a>. </p><p>(It is, and was, an incredible testament to how the Irish 'do' funerals. People dancing in the aisles, laughing, crying and memorializing. We at <a href="http://www.muldowneymemorials.com" target="_blank">Muldowney Memorials</a> try to bring that Irish spirit of celebrating a life while mourning a loss into every service that we do. It was lovely to see our dear friends <a href="https://www.greengraveyard.com" target="_blank">Green Graveyard</a>/<a href="https://www.greencoffins.ie" target="_blank">Green Coffins</a> on display too showcasing Irish artisans) Shane's funeral epitomized this equal life celebration and mourning of the incredible musician and man that he was.)</p><p>Infamous actor <a href="https://www.instagram.com/johnnydepp/" target="_blank">Johnny Depp</a> read the first Prayer of the Faithful (see below). There were readings from incredible “Game of Thrones” Irish actor <a href="https://www.instagram.com/aidangillen" target="_blank">Aiden Gillen</a> and former Irish Political leader (Sinn Féin) Gerry Adams. </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh3YHIi71kcb6FAvAGi2Eohjenztbu96BrsyAvzJpRlYtm5noHqsQ7wOkIEd9begzwkL78oApvneG9cBjdJjPmxn0fzxABkQCnRJYcrCj8G6zjBlPVXEsVfnY-CJxkSaXarR13hT8LzNqiKkG2rySaPAmmfZGjjHsrMdNX7lSMgNMiLeEh15QYTFQc6vtSi/s960/IMG_0639.JPG" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="582" data-original-width="960" height="194" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh3YHIi71kcb6FAvAGi2Eohjenztbu96BrsyAvzJpRlYtm5noHqsQ7wOkIEd9begzwkL78oApvneG9cBjdJjPmxn0fzxABkQCnRJYcrCj8G6zjBlPVXEsVfnY-CJxkSaXarR13hT8LzNqiKkG2rySaPAmmfZGjjHsrMdNX7lSMgNMiLeEh15QYTFQc6vtSi/s320/IMG_0639.JPG" width="320" /></a></div><p style="text-align: center;"><i>“We pray for a deeper spirit of compassion in the world....</i><i>May we feel the pain of others, understand their need and reach out to all who suffer in any way with a continuous love that is rooted in faith and peace. Lord, hear us.” ~ </i>Johnny Depp - Prayer of the Faithful</p><p><br /></p><p>Spoken words were interspersed with beautiful renditions of Shane MacGowan’s <b><u>music</u></b> including:</p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Nick Cave performed “<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zAsMLJ0lFN8" target="_blank">A Rainy Night in Soho</a>” accompanied by Colm Mac Con Iomaire on the fiddle and Glen Hansard on guitar. </li><li>MacGowan’s former bandmate, Cáit O’Riordan, sang The Pogues’s traditional song <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y3bsBZVoQoA" target="_blank">‘A Man You Don’t Meet Everyday’</a> alongside Irish folk musician, John Francis Flynn. </li><li>Glen Hansard and Lisa O'Neill sang “Fairytale of New York.” (see below video)</li><li>Irish singers Mundy and Camille O'Sullivan sang "<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_q7307IWwr4" target="_blank">Haunted</a>" - a duet that MacGowan recorded with the late <a href="https://www.sineadoconnor.com" target="_blank">Sinead O'Connor</a> who also died earlier this year. Mundy described his performance at the Mass as "a moment I'll never forget"</li><li>Four of the surviving Pogues - Jem Finer, Terry Woods, Spider Stacy, and James Fearnley, performed the Funeral Service finale “The Parting Glass.” (see below video)</li><li>The funeral procession that began that morning in Dublin and ended at the church paused at one point as the infamous Artane Band, (a marching band of young musicians) played an instrumental “Fairytale of New York,” while the local Irish crowd sang along. Along the route, other impromptu musicians performed “Dirty Old Town,” which was first recorded by an English folk singer called Ewan MacColl but later made famous by Shane's band The Pogues and others played The Pogues “A Pair of Brown Eyes.”</li></ul><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgidA1X5ktNhDBKQR1UlQenUxcYbSIL2QIvGUiC45LH_mG9kUNNpqaIjwYAxek77vVnrPNLcfHwtdMPmsUGRiq6rrZm07cf1Y6uWL8L08w9xR-halMN3QBvqDtR5_W3i5PzVdfsrrQ3LTYRR6JHWXCRYt9by51VB2EDTQqbT297fYeoWshJqj6RGkFFCe76/s590/IMG_0640.JPG" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="515" data-original-width="590" height="279" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgidA1X5ktNhDBKQR1UlQenUxcYbSIL2QIvGUiC45LH_mG9kUNNpqaIjwYAxek77vVnrPNLcfHwtdMPmsUGRiq6rrZm07cf1Y6uWL8L08w9xR-halMN3QBvqDtR5_W3i5PzVdfsrrQ3LTYRR6JHWXCRYt9by51VB2EDTQqbT297fYeoWshJqj6RGkFFCe76/s320/IMG_0640.JPG" width="320" /></a></div><div style="text-align: center;">Coffin/Casket was by our dear friends <a href="https://www.greencoffins.ie">Green Coffins Ireland</a></div><p></p><p>Also as part of the funeral service, Shane MacGowan’s wife, Victoria May Clarke, presented some tokens/symbols in an offering which included:</p><p></p><ul><li>His Crock of Gold book </li><li>A Buddha</li><li>Book of James Joyce’s Finnegans Wake</li><li>A Led Zeppelin album</li><li>His wedding photo with Victoria</li><li>And a tray that Pogues member Spider Stacy would sometimes “bash over Shane’s head” </li></ul><p></p><p><br /></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/victoriamaryclarke/p/C0i8_5isCvE/" target="_blank">She said:</a></p><p><i>“so many beautiful people are pouring their hearts and souls into making it magnificent and magical and memorable for him and for us who are left behind.”</i></p><p><i><br /></i></p><p style="text-align: center;"><b>It's a reminder that even in the darkest of times, there's a glimmer of light, </b></p><p style="text-align: center;"><b>a hope that sustains us through the storm.</b></p><p style="text-align: center;"><b><br /></b></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><iframe allowfullscreen="" class="BLOG_video_class" height="273" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/6s8lvnSmISc" width="329" youtube-src-id="6s8lvnSmISc"></iframe></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><i>Fairytale of New York</i></div><p>As we listen to the verses of "Fairytale of New York," let us acknowledge that grief is not a linear journey. It's an unpredictable dance between heartache and healing. Just like the song's lyrics paint a vivid picture of life's struggles, grief, too, paints a canvas of emotions that make us human.</p><p>May the song's melody serve as a reminder that amidst the pain, there's a harmony waiting to be heard—a melody of love, resilience, and the enduring spirit that helps us navigate the intricate notes of grief. </p><p>Let us cherish the memories, honor the past, and find solace in the love that remains.</p><div><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><iframe allowfullscreen="" class="BLOG_video_class" height="266" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/Y_-R_Kfa4uw" width="320" youtube-src-id="Y_-R_Kfa4uw"></iframe></div><div style="text-align: center;"><i>Parting Glass</i></div><div style="text-align: center;"><i><br /></i></div><div style="text-align: center;"><div style="text-align: left;">“Shane’s veins ran with Irish blood,” Shane's sister Siobhan said. </div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">“Shane, you did what you dreamed, You did what you said were going to do in those long ago days in Tipperary, and you did it with such heart and fire – <u>a fire that is not dimmed by death</u>.”</div><div><br /></div></div>The Glam Reaperhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08633431333914923438noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-390301129743999207.post-27194044230431574952023-11-09T14:26:00.001-05:002023-11-09T23:19:05.648-05:00Best and Worst Things to Say to people in grief<p><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue;">Recently </span><a href="https://www.oprahdaily.com" style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue";" target="_blank">Oprah</a><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue;"> posted an article about dealing with people who are grieving. Here at The Glam Reaper (And <a href="http://www.muldowneymemorials.com" target="_blank">Muldowney Memorials</a>) we understand grieving to be loss of any kind - watch my <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iNiCNz-7Sqg&t=154s" target="_blank">TedTalk</a> to hear my view directly. </span></p><p><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue;">Loss can be the loss of a job, a partner (death/divorce), a child (death/divorce/emancipation/distance/kidnapping), a pet (death/stolen/divorce), an object that was stolen or a home that was ransacked or just simply sold. It can be a myriad of things and more so we need to be gentle with each other and with ourselves on how we deal with others who are grieving.</span><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue";"> </span></p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">Grief specialist /counselor and <a href="https://grief.com/books-by-david-kessler/" target="_blank">author David Kessler<i> </i></a> says </p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 15px;"><br /></p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">“the most visited page (on his website <a href="http://grief.com">grief.com</a><a href="https://grief.com" target="_blank">)</a> is the ‘<i><b>Best and Worst Things to Say’ to people in grief</b></i>, and it is most visited in the middle of the night….This tells me that people are up, trying to figure out the right words.”</p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 15px;"><br /></p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">Here are *some of the tips that are provided in the <a href="https://www.oprahdaily.com/life/health/a45508809/how-to-express-sympathy/?utm_campaign=nl33275752" target="_blank">Oprah Daily article</a>: </p><p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">*altered slightly, as we dont agree 100% with everything suggested in the <a href="https://www.oprahdaily.com/life/health/a45508809/how-to-express-sympathy/?utm_campaign=nl33275752" target="_blank">article</a></p>
<p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"></p><p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 15px;"><br /></p>
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<li style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: Menlo; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal;"></span>Don’t avoid the topic.</li><ul><li style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"> They haven’t forgotten the loss, they never will. Avoidance doesn’t help, it just ignores the elephant in the room. If it's a person or a pet - use their name. Recall memories naturally. The love is still there, that doesn't go away.</li></ul>
<li style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: Menlo; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal;"></span>Don’t “bright side” the situation. </li><ul><li style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">I confess that sometimes I have to stop myself from being a ‘positive polly’ with friends because, like most of us when a friend is in pain, we just want to make them feel better. This can have a time and a place and there is no harm in asking when in doubt. Listening is the best tool you can be armed with as a friend, and if you listen well, you'll hear the right moment (if one comes) to help them focus on the future or the best.</li></ul>
<li style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: Menlo; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal;"></span>Offer tangible support</li><ul><li style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">"I can bring your dinners on these days, is that helpful?"</li><li style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">"Let me walk your other dogs/feed your other pets for you next week"</li><li style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">"Can I bring you to the courthouse/cemetery one of the days this week?"</li></ul>
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I'm here to just sit with you"</li><li style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">"I wish I had some words that would help"</li></ul><li><p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">Say nothing, just <u>BE</u> with the person. Physical contact can also help when permitted.</p><p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">None of this is easy or is there a perfect way to go about it. It's rough no matter what information you are armed with. There is a lot on Kesslers website I personally disagree with and he is a 'specialist' so all that tells me is reaffirming that <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iNiCNz-7Sqg&t=154s" target="_blank">GRIEF IS UNIQUE</a> and completely personal and individualized. 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They dive into important topics that might sound unfamiliar but are essential for understanding the cycle of life.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Return Home was born with the idea of providing families with a kind, clear, and open way to take care of their loved ones after they pass away. It’s a unique and natural approach that keeps the circle of life going. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">And while the concept of Terramation may sound strange, it's also a way to let a person's body become part of the Earth again naturally. No fancy chemicals, just nature doing its thing.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Ever wondered how long it takes for a body to return to the Earth? Brienna breaks it down for us. It's not something we think about every day, but understanding the process can help us appreciate the Earth's ways.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Methane and other gases are also on the agenda. You’ve probably only heard these terms in science class, but here, they're connected to the natural process of a body returning to the Earth. Brienna explains how these gases are involved in the cycle.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Tune in to this episode to learn about these down-to-earth topics on how to embrace the end of life with openness while understanding the natural journey we all take.</div></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><div><br /></div></div></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><b>LITTLE NUGGETS OF GOLD:</b></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">- The Birth of Return Home: Providing families access to inclusive, gentle, transparent death care that continues the cycle of life</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">- What is human composting?</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">- How long does it take to return a body to Earth?</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">- What role do methane and other gases play in the process of terramation?</div><div><br /></div></div></div></div></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; 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text-align: center;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><iframe allowfullscreen="" class="BLOG_video_class" height="344" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/JkgZmufJKCo" width="440" youtube-src-id="JkgZmufJKCo"></iframe></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Welcome to another episode of the Glam Reaper Podcast! This time, Jennifer sits down with Amber Carvaly, who you probably know as the 'Mortician in the Kitchen'. Curious how she got that name? Tune in as Amber shares her life story and everything that led her to this special title.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">But there is more to this conversation than just Amber’s story, as she and Jennifer also chat about topics that some find hard to talk about: death, dying, and yes, even food. So if you’ve ever thought of turning feelings of loss into something tasty, you’re not alone! Stream this episode and learn about Amber’s unique recipe, which is inspired by the ways we remember and honor our loved ones. And, make sure you don’t miss out on their tips on how you can make it easier to talk about difficult topics such as death and dying. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">We hope you enjoy this episode!</div><div><br /></div></div></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><b>LITTLE NUGGETS OF GOLD:</b></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">- Amber’s journey through life that led her to becoming the ‘Mortician in the Kitchen’</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">- The fascinating and oftentimes taboo topics of death, dying, and food</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">- Irish funerals and food</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">- How to bring these taboo topics to light and make them more accessible for everyone.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">- Converting grief into recipes: A recipe inspired by funerals and memorial services</div></div></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; 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cursor: text; margin: 0px 0px 1rem; padding: 0px;">Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/morticianinthekitchen">https://www.instagram.com/morticianinthekitchen</a></p><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><div><h3><span style="font-size: large;">Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper:</span></h3></div><div><div><span style="font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><span id="docs-internal-guid-5489a887-7fff-ae45-900e-6ddca316ed92" style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;"><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline;">Facebook Page: </span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/"><b><span style="color: #d71161;">Muldowney Memorials</span></b></a><span> & </span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/rainbowbridgememorialsdotcom"><b><span style="color: #d71161;">Rainbow Bridge Memorials</span></b></a></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline;">Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/muldowneymemorials/"><b><span style="color: #d71161;">@muldowneymemorials </span></b></a></span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><a href="https://twitter.com/TheGlamReaper"><b><span style="color: #d71161;">Twitter </span></b></a></p><span style="font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline;"><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCWe3sNoPny6UsMGYoYDeXfw"><b><span style="color: #d71161;">YouTube</span></b></a></span></span></span></div><div><a href="mailto:glamreaperpodcast@gmail.com" style="white-space-collapse: preserve;"><b><span style="color: #d71161; font-family: times; font-size: medium;">Email us</span></b></a></div></div></div><div><br /></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-390301129743999207.post-27537415498039228022023-07-30T03:00:00.001-04:002023-08-10T03:54:51.606-04:00Breaking Taboos on Death, Grief, and Loss: The Jennifer Stritch Interview<p> <span style="text-align: center;"> </span></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><iframe allowfullscreen="" class="BLOG_video_class" height="347" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/BbSPA8JCyIw" width="452" youtube-src-id="BbSPA8JCyIw"></iframe></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Welcome to another episode of The Glam Reaper Podcast! This week, your host, Jennifer, welcomes an exceptional guest who shares not only her name but also a deep interest in understanding the complexities of loss, grief, and death. Meet Jennifer Moran Stritch, a leading light in the field of grief research at the Technological University of the Shannon: Midlands Midwest.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">First up, Jennifer walks us through her personal journey. From her early interests and experiences to her current position as the Primary Principal Investigator of the Loss and Grief Research Group, we'll get an insightful glimpse into the path that led her to become an expert in this field.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Then, we dive into something that is often overlooked in schools—the all-important conversation surrounding loss, grief, and death. Why is it that these vital subjects don't make it to the classroom discussion often enough? Listen as Jennifer shares her perspective on this crucial issue and emphasizes the importance of breaking the silence around these ‘taboos’ in schools.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">And, as we all know, the COVID-19 pandemic dramatically shifted the world's perspective on many things, including how we view death. Our two Jennifers delve into this significant shift and explore how the global health crisis has changed our collective understanding and experience of death.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Finally, we cap off this episode with a fascinating look at the evolution of how people perceive death. How have our views changed from the past to the present? What can we learn from these changes? </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Don't miss out on this intriguing discussion! Join us on this journey as we continue to demystify death and provide a safe space for these essential conversations. Whether you're a faithful follower or a new listener, this episode of The Glam Reaper Podcast is sure to provide valuable insights and foster a deeper understanding of life's ultimate inevitability—death.</div></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><div><br /></div></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><b>LITTLE NUGGETS OF GOLD:</b></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">- Get to know more about Jennifer Moran Stritch’s background and journey</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">- Why students don't talk enough about loss, grief, and death</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">- The importance of talking about loss, grief, and death in schools</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">- How COVID drastically changed the way people view death</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">- The evolution of people’s perspective on death: Past vs. Present</div></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div></div></div></div><div><br /></div><h2 style="box-sizing: border-box; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; cursor: text; margin: 0px 0px 1rem; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">Connect with Jennifer Moran Stritch:</span></h2><p style="box-sizing: border-box; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; cursor: text; margin: 0px 0px 1rem; padding: 0px;">LinkedIn: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifermoranstritch/">https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifermoranstritch/</a></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; cursor: text; margin: 0px 0px 1rem; padding: 0px;">Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/stritchj">https://twitter.com/stritchj</a></p><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><div><h3><span style="font-size: large;">Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper:</span></h3></div><div><div><span style="font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><span id="docs-internal-guid-5489a887-7fff-ae45-900e-6ddca316ed92" style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;"><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline;">Facebook Page: </span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/"><b><span style="color: #d71161;">Muldowney Memorials</span></b></a><span> & </span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/rainbowbridgememorialsdotcom"><b><span style="color: #d71161;">Rainbow Bridge Memorials</span></b></a></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline;">Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/muldowneymemorials/"><b><span style="color: #d71161;">@muldowneymemorials </span></b></a></span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><a href="https://twitter.com/TheGlamReaper"><b><span style="color: #d71161;">Twitter </span></b></a></p><span style="font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline;"><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCWe3sNoPny6UsMGYoYDeXfw"><b><span style="color: #d71161;">YouTube</span></b></a></span></span></span></div><div><a href="mailto:glamreaperpodcast@gmail.com" style="white-space-collapse: preserve;"><b><span style="color: #d71161; font-family: times; font-size: medium;">Email us</span></b></a></div></div></div><div><br /></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-390301129743999207.post-17613837281586151072023-07-20T03:00:00.001-04:002023-08-10T03:58:50.260-04:00Hope, Resilience, and Death: A Candid Conversation with Dr. Kathryn Mannix<p> <span style="text-align: center;"> </span></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><iframe allowfullscreen="" class="BLOG_video_class" height="354" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/RVfrSgbtXV0" width="475" youtube-src-id="RVfrSgbtXV0"></iframe></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">In this heartwarming episode of The Glam Reaper Podcast, your host Jennifer Muldowney sits down with the amazing Dr. Kathryn Mannix, author of the insightful and thought-provoking book 'With The End In Mind.' Together, they delve into the profound wisdom of dying and death that the book captures.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Dr. Mannix's contributions to the realm of palliative care extend far beyond authorship. She is recognized for initiating the first Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) clinic exclusively dedicated to palliative care patients, potentially a global first. She has also created a 'CBT First Aid' training module designed to empower her fellow healthcare professionals and help them up-skill and improve patient care. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">The topic of death often invokes fear and apprehension. However, Dr. Mannix's extensive experience in caring for the dying suggests an alternative perspective, one that portrays death as less frightening and more peaceful than generally perceived. This episode highlights the reasons behind the common fear of dying and discuss potential ways to alleviate such anxieties. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">But today's discussion is not just about death and the fears that people associate with it. It’s also a conversation of hope and resilience, as Dr. Mannix also tells stories from her years in palliative care that highlight these qualities. These narratives are proof that love and hope can flourish even in the most challenging circumstances. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Stream this episode and join us for this insightful and inspirational discussion on hope, resilience, and death.</div><div><br /></div></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><b>LITTLE NUGGETS OF GOLD:</b></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">- Dr. Mannix’s book, With the End in Mind, which reacquaints us with the universal, but deeply personal, process of dying</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">- Her 30-year career in palliative care and her life’s journey</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">- How Dr. Katherine's experience in palliative care reveals that the process of dying can be less frightening and more peaceful</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">- Why most people fear dying</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">- The beauty of human resilience: Dr. Kathryn’s stories from dark places of hope and love</div></div></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div></div></div></div><div><br /></div><h2 style="box-sizing: border-box; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; cursor: text; margin: 0px 0px 1rem; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">Connect with Dr. Kathryn Mannix:</span></h2><p style="box-sizing: border-box; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; cursor: text; margin: 0px 0px 1rem; padding: 0px;">Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/DrKathrynMannix/">https://www.facebook.com/DrKathrynMannix/</a> </p><p style="box-sizing: border-box; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; cursor: text; margin: 0px 0px 1rem; padding: 0px;">Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/drkathrynmanni">https://www.instagram.com/drkathrynmanni</a></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; cursor: text; margin: 0px 0px 1rem; padding: 0px;">Website: <a href="https://withtheendinmind.co.uk/">https://withtheendinmind.co.uk/</a></p><div><br /></div><div><div><h3><span style="font-size: large;">Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper:</span></h3></div><div><div><span style="font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><span id="docs-internal-guid-5489a887-7fff-ae45-900e-6ddca316ed92" style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;"><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline;">Facebook Page: </span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/"><b><span style="color: #d71161;">Muldowney Memorials</span></b></a><span> & </span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/rainbowbridgememorialsdotcom"><b><span style="color: #d71161;">Rainbow Bridge Memorials</span></b></a></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline;">Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/muldowneymemorials/"><b><span style="color: #d71161;">@muldowneymemorials </span></b></a></span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><a href="https://twitter.com/TheGlamReaper"><b><span style="color: #d71161;">Twitter </span></b></a></p><span style="font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline;"><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCWe3sNoPny6UsMGYoYDeXfw"><b><span style="color: #d71161;">YouTube</span></b></a></span></span></span></div><div><a href="mailto:glamreaperpodcast@gmail.com" style="white-space-collapse: preserve;"><b><span style="color: #d71161; font-family: times; font-size: medium;">Email us</span></b></a></div></div></div><div><br /></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-390301129743999207.post-82254033124844245412023-07-13T09:35:00.003-04:002023-07-13T09:35:56.456-04:00Tom Anderson: A Day in the Life of a Funeral Director<p><br /> <span style="text-align: center;"> </span></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><iframe allowfullscreen="" class="BLOG_video_class" height="350" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/HMuyq4oAWsQ" width="466" youtube-src-id="HMuyq4oAWsQ"></iframe></div><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Ever wondered what it’s like to be a funeral director? In this brand-new episode of The Glam Reaper podcast, host Jennifer walks us through a day in the life of a funeral director along with her special guest, Tom Anderson.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Tom has been in the industry as a funeral director since the year 1980. Since then, he has worked at and owned a funeral home before selling it in 2013. He also started the blog, Funeral Director Daily, focusing on death care, funeral service, cremation, and related subjects and serving as a free source of news and information on the funeral care business. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Tune in as Jennifer and Tom talk about important matters in the funeral industry, what it means to be a funeral director and how the recent innovations in the funeral industry are helping save the environment.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Hit the play button for more scientific but interesting facts that revolve around life and death! Enjoy!</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><b>LITTLE NUGGETS OF GOLD:</b></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">- Tom’s background and how he became a funeral director</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">- An overview of Tom’s blog, Funeral Director Daily and the different topics it covers</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">- Tom’s thoughts about cremation and how it can help the environment</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">- An overview of the responsibilities of a funeral director</div><div><br /></div></div></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div></div></div></div><div><br /></div><h2 style="box-sizing: border-box; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; cursor: text; margin: 0px 0px 1rem; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">Connect with Tom Anderson:</span></h2><p style="box-sizing: border-box; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; cursor: text; margin: 0px 0px 1rem; padding: 0px;">Website: <a href="https://funeraldirectordaily.com">https://funeraldirectordaily.com</a></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; cursor: text; margin: 0px 0px 1rem; padding: 0px;"><br /></p><div><div><h3><span style="font-size: large;">Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper:</span></h3></div><div><div><span style="font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><span id="docs-internal-guid-5489a887-7fff-ae45-900e-6ddca316ed92" style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;"><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline;">Facebook Page: </span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/"><b><span style="color: #d71161;">Muldowney Memorials</span></b></a><span> & </span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/rainbowbridgememorialsdotcom"><b><span style="color: #d71161;">Rainbow Bridge Memorials</span></b></a></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline;">Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/muldowneymemorials/"><b><span style="color: #d71161;">@muldowneymemorials </span></b></a></span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><a href="https://twitter.com/TheGlamReaper"><b><span style="color: #d71161;">Twitter </span></b></a></p><span style="font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline;"><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCWe3sNoPny6UsMGYoYDeXfw"><b><span style="color: #d71161;">YouTube</span></b></a></span></span></span></div><div><a href="mailto:glamreaperpodcast@gmail.com" style="white-space-collapse: preserve;"><b><span style="color: #d71161; font-family: times; font-size: medium;">Email us</span></b></a></div></div></div><div><br /></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-390301129743999207.post-84157152823830607802023-07-12T03:00:00.002-04:002023-07-13T07:36:18.239-04:00Healing Tails: Louise Griffey's Approach to Pet Loss<p> <span style="text-align: center;"> </span></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><iframe allowfullscreen="" class="BLOG_video_class" height="340" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/Bew_IOQwu0g" width="483" youtube-src-id="Bew_IOQwu0g"></iframe></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Welcome to another soul-stirring episode of The Glam Reaper podcast! This time, our host, Jennifer, invites us into a heart-to-heart conversation with Louise Griffey, the founder of Light After Loss. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Louise isn't just your typical guest - she's an Advanced Grief Recovery Method Specialist specializing in helping individuals grieving the loss of a pet. With her journey marked by the end of a significant relationship and the loss of her beloved pets, she found solace and purpose in The Grief Recovery Method®. Her experience is a compelling exploration of grief, recovery, and the strength of the human spirit.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">This episode of The Glam Reaper is a profound conversation that underscores the power of empathy, compassion, and resilience in the healing process. Here, Louise's dedication to assisting others through their grief, whether it concerns a human or a pet, shines brightly. This is not just a conversation; it's an invitation to understand the power of healing.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Join Jennifer and Louise for an inspiring and insightful episode that offers a fresh perspective on loss, love, and the journey towards recovery.</div><div><br /></div></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><b>LITTLE NUGGETS OF GOLD:</b></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><b><br /></b></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">- Louise’s journey through life that led her to found Light After Loss</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">- How does the Grief Recovery Method work? </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">- The therapeutic benefits of the Pet Loss Support program</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">- Different ways to overcome pet loss</div></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div></div></div></div><div><br /></div><h2 style="box-sizing: border-box; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; cursor: text; margin: 0px 0px 1rem; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">Connect with Louise Griffey:</span></h2><p style="box-sizing: border-box; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; cursor: text; margin: 0px 0px 1rem; padding: 0px;">Website: <a href="https://www.griefrecoverymethod.com/grms/louise-griffey">https://www.griefrecoverymethod.com/grms/louise-griffey</a></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; cursor: text; margin: 0px 0px 1rem; padding: 0px;">Website: <a href="https://www.lightafterloss.ie/">https://www.lightafterloss.ie/ </a></p><div><br /></div><div><div><h3><span style="font-size: large;">Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper:</span></h3></div><div><div><span style="font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><span id="docs-internal-guid-5489a887-7fff-ae45-900e-6ddca316ed92" style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;"><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline;">Facebook Page: </span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/"><b><span style="color: #d71161;">Muldowney Memorials</span></b></a><span> & </span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/rainbowbridgememorialsdotcom"><b><span style="color: #d71161;">Rainbow Bridge Memorials</span></b></a></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline;">Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/muldowneymemorials/"><b><span style="color: #d71161;">@muldowneymemorials </span></b></a></span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><a href="https://twitter.com/TheGlamReaper"><b><span style="color: #d71161;">Twitter </span></b></a></p><span style="font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline;"><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCWe3sNoPny6UsMGYoYDeXfw"><b><span style="color: #d71161;">YouTube</span></b></a></span></span></span></div><div><a href="mailto:glamreaperpodcast@gmail.com" style="white-space-collapse: preserve;"><b><span style="color: #d71161; font-family: times; font-size: medium;">Email us</span></b></a></div></div></div><div><br /></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-390301129743999207.post-80475272586767057462023-07-03T16:02:00.009-04:002023-07-03T16:02:00.134-04:00Funeral Community Workers Mental Health Crisis<p>When faced with a problem or something unpleasant, does anyone else’s mind go to worst-case scenario or down a rabbit hole of ‘what if’? This can be applied to grief, but it can also apply to some of the situations we, in the funeral community, face on a daily and monthly basis. We must protect our own minds and spirits if we are to best serve others. </p><p>There is a way out or a way to save ourselves from this pit of a rabbit hole and it is called ‘scheduled worry time’. The strategy has even been portrayed in popular media in the TV show ‘Shrinking’. It essentially entails setting aside 15 minutes daily to truly immerse oneself in sadness, worry, or unpleasant feelings. It is actively sitting with these horridly intense and debilitating feelings for a set period of time that may otherwise come and go throughout the day.</p><p>In the Irish language, instead of simply saying "I am sad," we say “Tá Brón Orm” which is sadness is on me. As Pádraig Ó Tuama, the poet notes, "Something else will be on me another time, and that's a good thing to recognize." Having the 15 minutes of scheduled worry or grieving time means it has a place in our day, our week and it acknowledges the feeling we are feeling any way but usually in an erratic and debilitating way. ‘Sadness is on me’ is an Irish way of acknowledging the feeling but knowing that in another time something else will be ‘on me’ so 15 minutes of letting sadness or worry ‘be on us’ but that it is temporary and only here until tomorrow’s 15 minutes. </p><p>It is not clear cut of course, grief and anxiety rarely are, but having these 15 minutes where you can truly let go and then put it back in its worry box until the next day, allows you to healthily deal with it daily without letting it control you. There are also different types of this. For me, I allow myself certain activities for a few weeks or a month – such as not going to the gym or going to bed at 8pm if that’s what I feel my brain and body need and then once that time is up, I must resume ‘normal’ behaviours and routines. The 15 minutes will look different to everyone and is even mentioned on the UK’s NHS website. It is a proven cognitive behavioural therapy.</p><p>So let us honour our emotions, knowing that they come and go like waves and that they are an important part of the human experience.</p><p>I spoke on May 16 last at the Funeral Professionals Peer Support Meeting on Zoom about the topic of mental health in our community. Read more on this topic here <a href="https://www.cremationassociation.org/page/selfcare">CANA Self Care</a> I also chatted with Barbara Kemmis of CANA about this issue on my podcast – The Glam Reaper. Grieving is essential and that includes our own. Look after yourselves.</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgieeKkKE8XkCdBg0VW_S7vazkqs4QzGS-JBZE6qllfSiez1q5o7fblPnp481dAwG-O9DWsXPshwiIbt6XCqRto7iCZgI3HL-B6TTaFlFYiY9z4GLY2dDKZUuv2PISMNJ6pEW3FjeIroutS8uPylAYJidzkgulylU3m8hS0-YRr2y5YrRLCU8p8gj1ydA/s346/CANA.png" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="196" data-original-width="346" height="113" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgieeKkKE8XkCdBg0VW_S7vazkqs4QzGS-JBZE6qllfSiez1q5o7fblPnp481dAwG-O9DWsXPshwiIbt6XCqRto7iCZgI3HL-B6TTaFlFYiY9z4GLY2dDKZUuv2PISMNJ6pEW3FjeIroutS8uPylAYJidzkgulylU3m8hS0-YRr2y5YrRLCU8p8gj1ydA/w200-h113/CANA.png" width="200" /></a><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgZQcLOKLuSorWlhWtQlbxKvqY3NRqCpbTi2fFE-qBKZW0ZKCVAIwIjt3Nn7HnndNuZfp2mBSbhFg1mvrLGP17PQSWGMq3kfq_-8heJ8Rsf9eDhtRyRBl7uPxfV3IbcvK95r7c2CfHlzDhcwmiZ9jcTmAX-qvjNhj-rP9-y4m88BHICVb0vz9XTgF9guQ/s418/FPPS.png" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="162" data-original-width="418" height="77" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgZQcLOKLuSorWlhWtQlbxKvqY3NRqCpbTi2fFE-qBKZW0ZKCVAIwIjt3Nn7HnndNuZfp2mBSbhFg1mvrLGP17PQSWGMq3kfq_-8heJ8Rsf9eDhtRyRBl7uPxfV3IbcvK95r7c2CfHlzDhcwmiZ9jcTmAX-qvjNhj-rP9-y4m88BHICVb0vz9XTgF9guQ/w200-h77/FPPS.png" width="200" /></a></div><br /><div><br /></div>The Glam Reaperhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08633431333914923438noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-390301129743999207.post-57064995913920455532023-07-02T03:01:00.002-04:002023-07-02T03:01:52.419-04:00Flameless Cremation: A Change for the Better with Ed Gazvoda<p> <span style="text-align: center;"> </span></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><iframe allowfullscreen="" class="BLOG_video_class" height="357" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/2DdLzfEghns" width="491" youtube-src-id="2DdLzfEghns"></iframe></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="text-align: left;"><br /></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="text-align: left;"><br /></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Ever heard of flameless cremation? If you haven’t yet, it’s about time you did! Welcome to another episode of the Glam Reaper Podcast, where host Jennifer talks about life, love, loss, and funerals. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Today’s special guest is Ed Gazvoda, president of Fireless Cremation and co-inventor of aquamation 2.0 for humans, pets and labs. In this intriguing episode, Ed gives us an overview of fireless cremation–what it is and all the processes involved. Delve into a real eye-opener as Ed takes us on a deep dive into the science of alkaline hydrolysis and some of the legalities involved in the process. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Curious to know how this form of cremation differs from the usual one you know? Hit the play button and jump right in! </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><b>LITTLE NUGGETS OF GOLD:</b></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">- A little background about Ed and how he started his business</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">- More information about alkaline hydrolysis and its legal bases</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">- The difference between fireless cremation and regular cremation</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">- All about fireless cremation and the processes involved</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div></div></div></div><div><br /></div><h2 style="box-sizing: border-box; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; cursor: text; margin: 0px 0px 1rem; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">Connect with Ed Gazvoda:</span></h2><p style="box-sizing: border-box; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; cursor: text; margin: 0px 0px 1rem; padding: 0px;">Website: <a href="https://firelesscremation.com/">https://firelesscremation.com/</a></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; cursor: text; margin: 0px 0px 1rem; padding: 0px;">Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/firelesscremationsystem">https://www.facebook.com/firelesscremationsystem</a></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; cursor: text; margin: 0px 0px 1rem; padding: 0px;">Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/firelesscremation/">https://www.instagram.com/firelesscremation/</a></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; cursor: text; margin: 0px 0px 1rem; padding: 0px;">Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/FirelessC">https://twitter.com/FirelessC</a></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; cursor: text; margin: 0px 0px 1rem; padding: 0px;">YouTube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCcQnOrAjj6dBiSOYxx4e1vQ">https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCcQnOrAjj6dBiSOYxx4e1vQ</a></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; cursor: text; margin: 0px 0px 1rem; padding: 0px;">LinkedIn: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/firelesscremation">https://www.linkedin.com/company/firelesscremation</a></p><div><br /></div><div><div><h3><span style="font-size: large;">Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper:</span></h3></div><div><div><span style="font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><span id="docs-internal-guid-5489a887-7fff-ae45-900e-6ddca316ed92" style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;"><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline;">Facebook Page: </span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/"><b><span style="color: #d71161;">Muldowney Memorials</span></b></a><span> & </span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/rainbowbridgememorialsdotcom"><b><span style="color: #d71161;">Rainbow Bridge Memorials</span></b></a></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline;">Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/muldowneymemorials/"><b><span style="color: #d71161;">@muldowneymemorials </span></b></a></span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><a href="https://twitter.com/TheGlamReaper"><b><span style="color: #d71161;">Twitter </span></b></a></p><span style="font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline;"><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCWe3sNoPny6UsMGYoYDeXfw"><b><span style="color: #d71161;">YouTube</span></b></a></span></span></span></div><div><a href="mailto:glamreaperpodcast@gmail.com" style="white-space-collapse: preserve;"><b><span style="color: #d71161; font-family: times; font-size: medium;">Email us</span></b></a></div></div></div><div><br /></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-390301129743999207.post-25340416330398642352023-06-29T03:00:00.001-04:002023-06-29T03:00:00.137-04:00The Radical Reaper: Sandra’s Green Vision<p> <span style="text-align: center;"> </span></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><iframe allowfullscreen="" class="BLOG_video_class" height="358" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/tjZ-OJA1l0Q" width="471" youtube-src-id="tjZ-OJA1l0Q"></iframe></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="text-align: left;"><br /></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="text-align: left;"><br /></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">What if the final stage of your human journey could support the circle of life in the most natural and earth-friendly way?</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">Welcome to an inspiring discussion that pushes the boundaries of tradition and catalyzes a much-needed conversation about eco-consciousness, even after life. In today's episode, Jennifer dives into that which is not just shaking the ground, but actually, returns us to it. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">Join Jennifer and Sandra, aka ‘The Radical Reaper,’ as they explore this groundbreaking concept, shedding light on how we can take our environmental responsibilities beyond our human experience. Get ready to redefine the cycle of life and death, as we explore the delicate, but profound intersection of mortality, dignity, and eco-consciousness. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">One of Sandra’s goals for 2023 is to get the word out there, and educate families on their rights in the funeral service. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">What are the thoughts of our fellow Irish people? Do you think alkaline hydrolysis or green burial will take off in Ireland?</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><h2 style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><b><i><blockquote>“My goal is to educate families on their rights that they have in the funeral service.” - Sandra Baker</blockquote></i></b></h2><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">LITTLE NUGGETS OF GOLD:</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">- How Sandra, The Radical Reaper, became a licensed mortician in three states. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">- Freelance funeral director? Explore the possibility of stepping into the world of freelancing!</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">- TheEnd.Green Foundation: Providing access to education, support, & funding for those advancing a more symbiotic relationship with death and dying.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">- What happens when our planet’s burial space reaches its full capacity?</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">- The green future of human composting, alkaline hydrolysis, and other types of green burial arrangements.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Connect with Sandra Baker:</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div></div></div></div><div><br /></div><h2 style="box-sizing: border-box; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; cursor: text; margin: 0px 0px 1rem; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">Connect with Sandra Baker:</span></h2><p style="box-sizing: border-box; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; cursor: text; margin: 0px 0px 1rem; padding: 0px;">LinkedIn: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/sandra-baker-4106b71a6">https://www.linkedin.com/in/sandra-baker-4106b71a6</a></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; cursor: text; margin: 0px 0px 1rem; padding: 0px;">Instagram: @The_Radical_Reaper </p><p style="box-sizing: border-box; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; cursor: text; margin: 0px 0px 1rem; padding: 0px;">Website: <a href="http://www.theradicalreaper.org">www.theradicalreaper.org</a></p><div><br /></div><div><div><h3><span style="font-size: large;">Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper:</span></h3></div><div><div><span style="font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><span id="docs-internal-guid-5489a887-7fff-ae45-900e-6ddca316ed92" style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;"><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline;">Facebook Page: </span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/"><b><span style="color: #d71161;">Muldowney Memorials</span></b></a><span> & </span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/rainbowbridgememorialsdotcom"><b><span style="color: #d71161;">Rainbow Bridge Memorials</span></b></a></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline;">Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/muldowneymemorials/"><b><span style="color: #d71161;">@muldowneymemorials </span></b></a></span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><a href="https://twitter.com/TheGlamReaper"><b><span style="color: #d71161;">Twitter </span></b></a></p><span style="font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline;"><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCWe3sNoPny6UsMGYoYDeXfw"><b><span style="color: #d71161;">YouTube</span></b></a></span></span></span></div><div><a href="mailto:glamreaperpodcast@gmail.com" style="white-space-collapse: preserve;"><b><span style="color: #d71161; font-family: times; font-size: medium;">Email us</span></b></a></div></div></div><div><br /></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-390301129743999207.post-25119986913786339692023-06-23T12:19:00.002-04:002023-07-17T19:49:39.363-04:00The Glam Reaper Goes to Niagara Falls!<h1 style="text-align: center;"><span style="text-align: left;"> </span></h1><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><iframe allowfullscreen="" class="BLOG_video_class" height="380" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/MzYSxeRJhBo" width="480" youtube-src-id="MzYSxeRJhBo"></iframe></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">Boss Lady, Jennifer Muldowney, took a little trip back in February to Niagara Falls. She needed a time out and water is her zen so off she went on her travels to renew her creativity, write and find her way back to her peace.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">Do you ever go on mini trips for your own peace of mind?</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">What's on your bucket list?</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">And most importantly, 'Where to next?'</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><b>Connect with Jennifer/The Glam Reaper: </b></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><a href="https://www.facebook.com/MuldowneyMemorials/" target="_blank">Facebook Page - Memorials</a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><a href="https://www.facebook.com/rainbowbridgememorialsdotcom" target="_blank">Facebook Page - Pets</a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">Instagram - <a href="https://www.instagram.com/muldowneymemorials/">@muldowneymemorials </a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">Twitter - <a href="https://twitter.com/TheGlamReaper">@TheGlamReaper</a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">Email us at the glamreaperpodcast@gmail.com.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-glam-reaper-podcast/id1572382989?i=1000525524145">Listen to the Glam Reaper Podcast on Apple Podcasts</a></div></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><p></p>Jennifer Muldowneyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13293362045771322979noreply@blogger.com0